Pastor Focuses on Relationships Rather Than Religion
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Pastor Roger Wilcoxen and his wife, Angela Wilcoxen
When Dr. Roger Wilcoxen preached publicly for the first time, on a Cincinnati, Ohio, street corner at midnight on summer Friday night, he had his eyes closed.
鈥淗ow I kept from falling off the platform, I don鈥檛 know,鈥 Wilcoxen says. 鈥淏ut when I opened my eyes, I had about a hundred people standing there. I went back there every Friday night for the entire summer.鈥
At the time, Wilcoxen was 16 years old and preaching to those gathered on the streets at midnight, including members of gangs and prostitutes.
Now, after several decades traveling across the country serving churches, ministering to those in prison, serving as a youth pastor and evangelizing, the father of five has settled at King Hill Christian Church , an independent church in south St. Joseph .
鈥淢y biggest thing is giving God opportunity,鈥 he says. 鈥淚 don鈥檛 get tripped up on 鈥楪od鈥檚 going to heal you today.鈥 I don鈥檛 get tripped up on 鈥楪od鈥檚 going to deliver you today.鈥 My biggest thing is let鈥檚 just give God the opportunity, and we鈥檒l watch God do what he does best: love his people.鈥
Wilcoxen, who lives in Olathe, Kansas , grew up in Kentucky and felt a call to ministry at 16 years old. Although not raised in a church, he began to attend one as a teen. He was saved in the basement of a house in October 1989. During a worship service a month later, Wilcoxen says he felt called to preach.
鈥淚t was so real that right in the middle of the worship service, I said 鈥極h no you don鈥檛鈥 and I sat down,鈥 he says. 鈥淚t scared the daylights out of me. I didn鈥檛 tell nobody. But I was hungry. I wanted to know the word, the scripture, so I got into all kinds of classes and everything.鈥
Wilcoxen soon began preaching, including the summer he spent in Cincinnati. He later attended Southwestern Assemblies of God University in Waxahachie, Texas , where he graduated with a degree in cross-cultural missions. He later earned a master鈥檚 degree in counseling psychology, an honorary doctorate in divinity and a doctoral degree in Christian psychotherapy.
He has ministered at churches, led youth groups, spoke at revivals and ministered at jails, prisons and 鈥渁nything and everything鈥 in locations including Kentucky, Ohio, Indiana, Tennessee, Texas, California, Oklahoma, Kansas and Missouri, Wilcoxen says. Earlier this year, while working as a clinical supervisor at the Family Guidance Center in St. Joseph, Wilcoxen learned about the need for a pastor at King Hill Christian Church. He agreed to preach for the month of July.
鈥淚 was here about two weeks and it was like a happy marriage almost,鈥 he says. 鈥淚 fell in love with the people. I fell in love with the area, everything.鈥
He was encouraged to apply for the full-time position, which he did. He interviewed and accepted the job as senior pastor in August before staring at the small, independent church on Sept. 16. Since then, the church鈥檚 weekly attendance has almost doubled, he says.
鈥淚t鈥檚 been exciting. We鈥檝e seen some growth,鈥 Wilcoxen says. 鈥淵ounger generations are coming back, which is really nice. It鈥檚 been really good.鈥
His focus has continued to be reaching outside the walls of a church to those in the community, he says. He chooses to focus on the scriptures and a personal and deep relationship with Christ, an approach that has helped in his experience with youth ministry, Wilcoxen says.
鈥淚t鈥檚 a relevance with fire, a passion for outside the four walls, reaching this generation,鈥 he says. 鈥淚t鈥檚 getting past our own ideas, our own biases, our own religion ideas and really get sold out into a relationship with Christ and so focused on that that nothing else matters.鈥
Although he doesn鈥檛 consider himself a counselor, he pursued is advanced degrees in counseling to be able to provide faith-based guidance to members of congregations as needed, Wilcoxen says.
鈥淚鈥檝e seen a lot of ministers and a lot of different ministries where people were counseling people and really had no business doing it because they were in some extreme situations,鈥 he says. 鈥淚 wanted to be a unique pastor in the sense that I wasn鈥檛 just trained in ministry, but I was trained in counseling, too.鈥
His hope is that King Hill Christian Church will become a 鈥渕othering church in the community,鈥 Wilcoxen says, where members of the community can come for guidance, prayer and support even if they don鈥檛 regularly attend the church.
鈥淚t鈥檚 something that I think is unique in a sense, actually really caring about people and seeing them through the eyes of Christ,鈥 he says. 鈥淣ot seeing them through judgement. Not seeing that they aren鈥檛 dressed this way or that they act that way. That鈥檚 not important. What is important is that we love them. That just burns inside me.鈥
Worship service is held at 10:30 a.m. Sundays following a 9 a.m. fellowship time at the church, 5828 King Hill Ave. He sees the value the church already puts on relationships and hopes to continue to develop those relationships and support the church provides, Wilcoxen says.
鈥淚 believe we are headed that way. I don鈥檛 believe we鈥檝e arrived. Of course, I don鈥檛 think we ever arrive anywhere. We are always growing That鈥檚 probably the most important piece, that we see that growth,鈥 he says. 鈥淣ot just numerically, but spiritually.鈥
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